There’s a fear that people in abusive relationships can’t “simply leave”. For many, the barriers to escape feel insurmountable. Fear, financial dependence, the threat to children, and the deeply ingrained belief that they deserve the abuse – these factors create a prison just as real as any locked door.
Sarah’s Story
“I felt trapped. He controlled everything, isolated me from everyone, made me think I was going mad… that leaving would somehow be even worse. I didn’t think there was a way out.”
One night, after a particularly violent incident, Sarah reached a breaking point. “I finally called the police. They were amazing, but I didn’t know where to go next. That’s when they connected me with Contento Social Homes.”
How Contento Homes Helps
It’s not just about shelter, although that safe haven is vital. Contento Social Homes understands the complex web that traps survivors. Our approach includes:
- Safety Planning: Strategies to leave safely, protecting children, and getting legal help if necessary.
- Counselling: Processing the trauma, addressing the self-blame and shame so common after abuse.
- Practical Support: Budgeting, job skills, housing assistance… rebuilding a life from the ground up.
- Children’s Services: Specialised support for kids who’ve witnessed abuse, helping break the cycle.
The Path to Freedom
“It hasn’t been easy,” Sarah admits. “But I have my own place now, my kids are happier, and I’m starting to feel like…me again. I never thought that was possible.”
It IS possible. But tragically, many never find their way out.
Are You Worried About Someone?
Notice these signs that a friend or loved one may be in danger:
- Isolation from others
- Unexplained injuries or excuses for them
- Controlling partner
- Fearful or withdrawn behaviour
- Changes in personality, seeming depressed
How You Can Help
- Listen without judgment. Let them know you believe them, it’s not their fault.
- Offer practical support: Can you babysit, offer a safe place to talk, help them research options?
- Refer them to Professional Help: We have the expertise to help them build a safe future.
Contento Social Homes Resources
- Referrals: 073 0509 2335, referrals@contentohomes.com
- Office: 0121 451 1464, info@contentohomes.com
- Donation Portal: https://contentosocialhomes.com/donations/donations/empowering-survivors-building-futures/
Escape is possible. Healing is possible. Together, we can build a world where everyone lives free from fear.
