{"id":2980,"date":"2024-04-17T15:37:58","date_gmt":"2024-04-17T15:37:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/contentosocialhomes.com\/blog\/?p=2980"},"modified":"2024-04-17T15:37:58","modified_gmt":"2024-04-17T15:37:58","slug":"are-you-raising-the-next-victim-or-the-next-survivor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/contentosocialhomes.com\/blog\/2024\/04\/17\/are-you-raising-the-next-victim-or-the-next-survivor\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Raising the Next Victim&#8230;Or the Next Survivor?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s a question no parent wants to ask themselves, but it&#8217;s a question we need to face: are the ways we deal with conflict, with anger, and with love in our own homes affecting what our children will accept in the future?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Children who grow up witnessing domestic abuse are more likely to experience it themselves as adults. It&#8217;s a heartbreaking pattern, but it&#8217;s one we can break.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What Does Domestic Abuse Look Like in a Home?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s not always hitting. It can be:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Shouting, insults, and name-calling<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Controlling behaviour &#8211; who your child is friends with, what they wear<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Gaslighting &#8211; making your child doubt their own feelings and memories<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Threats of violence or self-harm<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Isolating your child from friends and family<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The Damage It Can Do<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Children who are exposed to this kind of environment often:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Develop anxiety and depression<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Struggle with relationships and trust<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Feel guilty or responsible for the abuse<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Become aggressive or withdrawn at school<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Have difficulty learning and concentrating<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>But There&#8217;s Hope &#8211; You Can Help Break the Cycle<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Get support:<\/strong>\u00a0Contento Social Homes is here to help, not just with a safe place to stay, but with counselling and support for both women and their children to start healing.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Talk to your children:<\/strong>\u00a0Explain that abuse is NEVER okay, it&#8217;s not their fault, and you love them.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Model healthy relationships:<\/strong>\u00a0Show your children that disagreements can be resolved without cruelty.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Teach them about consent and boundaries:<\/strong>\u00a0Emphasize their right to say no, and respect others&#8217; choices.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"574\" src=\"https:\/\/contentosocialhomes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/312434-1024x574.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2982\" srcset=\"https:\/\/contentosocialhomes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/312434-1024x574.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/contentosocialhomes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/312434-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/contentosocialhomes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/312434-768x430.jpg 768w, https:\/\/contentosocialhomes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/312434-1536x861.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/contentosocialhomes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/312434.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Important Resources:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Contento Social Homes Referrals:<\/strong>\u00a0073 0509 2335, referrals@contentohomes.com<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Office:<\/strong>\u00a00121 451 1464, info@contentohomes.com<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>NSPCC Helpline:<\/strong>\u00a00808 800 5000 (NSPCC website:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nspcc.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.nspcc.org.uk\/<\/a>)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Childline:<\/strong>\u00a00800 1111 (Childline website:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.childline.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.childline.org.uk\/<\/a>)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Every child deserves a childhood filled with love, not fear. Let&#8217;s raise a generation that knows their worth and demands nothing less.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s a question no parent wants to ask themselves, but it&#8217;s a question we need to face: are the ways we deal with conflict, with anger, and with love in our own homes affecting what our children will accept in the future? 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